“If you don’t want to do something, one excuse is as good as another. “
– Yiddish Proverb
Do you want to learn an almost fool-proof way to stop procrastinating, stop making excuses – and finally make progress on that project that’s been nagging you and mocking you on your todo list?
Then read on for a powerful technique that I learned from Seth Godin.
Drop Your “If Only”
I was rereading Linchpin this weekend and came across this nugget:
If Only
Corporate coach Deanna Vogt challenged me to fill in the sentence, “I could be more creative if only …”
“If only” is a great way to eliminate your excuse du jour. “If only” is an obligator, because once you get rid of that item, you’ve got no excuse left, only the obligation.
I could see the situation more accurately if only …
I could lead this tribe if only …
I could find the bravery to do my art if only …”
– From Linchpin by Seth Godin
What’s Your If Only?
The question I want you to ask yourself today is:
What’s the “if only” that’s holding you back?
- What’s the single piece of information you need?
- What’s the single thing about circumstances that needs to change? (Perhaps, that you need to take action and change)
- What’s the single reason you can’t accomplish the most important item on your todo list?
- What’s your if only? What’s making you procrastinate? What’s your excuse?
And then, get out there and do it. Drop your if only. Get it off your back, so you can get to the work that really matter.
Fare forward, and do the great things you were meant to do
Stop being held back by how you could accomplish what you really desired, “if only.”
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