“A strong passion for any object will ensure success, for the desire of the end will point out the means”
– William Hazlitt
Imagine the last time you had to work on some dreary task – something you truly dreaded. Go on, close your eyes and do it. I bet just now, merely thinking about it changed the way you felt – your emotions. You may even have furrowed your brow, grimaced, tensed up your muscles or pursed your lips. Just thinking about it likely changed your body language.
Now close your eyes and think about a time you were doing something you loved. Perhaps a hobby, sport, or working towards a dream of yours. How does that make you feel? I bet your body language and feelings changed again.
That difference in attitude is the difference between how we approach doing something because it’s work (something that you have to do) and doing something because it’s your passion (something that you want to do) – and we’ll explore that a little in today’s post.
Note that in this case, when I say work I don’t necessarily mean your career. There are plenty of people in jobs and careers they love. I’m taking my definition of work from the general productivity sense of “stuff I don’t want to do – but have to.”
The Puppy And The Plough
I was thinking about this recently, and the best analogy I could think of is working is like pulling a plough.
The plough is cold, hard material – it has no feeling, no desire to go anywhere, and you don’t want to pull it! However, if you want to get anything accomplished, you have to muster up the motivation and determination to pull it anyway. That’s what work is like – you don’t want to do it, but you suck it up and get it done.
Passion on the other hand is like walking a puppy.
Have you ever taken a puppy out for a walk? You can barely control it! When you’re inside the house, as soon as it hears your pick up the leash it starts running in circles in anticipation. It gets excited. It starts clawing at the door trying to get out. As soon as you get outside, what happens? It tries to run up the street. It runs to the next tree. It practically pulls you behind it, and about all you can do is guide it in the general direction you want to go.
Now that’s what following your passion is like. When I”m working on an exciting piece of software, or writing a new song on guitar, or even writing new articles for this website – once I get started, the project practically does itself. I get in a zone – I forget to eat, I forget to shave, I literally will start falling asleep at the keyboard sometimes because I have to force myself to sleep!
Work Versus Passion – Energy Levels Over Time
Another way of looking at this is considering the long term impact of work. In the short term, we can put up with just about anything – but what are the long term ramifications? I think they look like this:
Work: Over time our “energy” (motivation and actual physical energy) goes down over time the longer we work on something we don’t want to do. What keeps us motivated to keep working? I think it’s small accomplishment boosts from payoffs. For example, occasionally we’ll get paid, earn a bonus, get a pat on the back – or perhaps we reach a short term goal because of the work we’re doing. Nonetheless, the general trend is downward – and without enough payoff, we’ll eventually reach a point where we can’t stand it anymore. The work in and of itself is not rewarding.
Passion on the other hand I’ve found generally increases my energy over time – almost regardless of progress. When I’m passionate about something, I go to sleep and wake up even more motivated to work on my projects than the night before. When I accomplish a small goal, it helps to further fuel my momentum – but with passion, the general trend is upward anyway – and (I didn’t show this in the graph) this helps push me through short term setbacks without losing enthusiasm. The activity itself is rewarding, and I continue doing it even without bonuses to motivate me.
Note that these are extreme examples. For me, most of my passions involve some amount of work, so it’s not always exciting. For example, I don’t especially like some aspects of software development, like tracking down frustrating bugs, but these short term instances of work don’t impact my overall passion for it.
A New Drive, And A New Website
Many of you know that I genuinely enjoy connecting with new people. I (eventually) reply to all my emails people send me with their thoughts on my articles and though I’m behind, I do try to reply to comments and get involved in the discussion. I’ve met a number of fantastic people through this blog and Twitter (you do follow me right?), and the relationships I’ve formed have truly enriched my life.
Well, my buddy Srinivas Rao enjoys meeting new people as well – and hearing their stories. He’s done a fantastic job interviewing some people getting to their stories about how they started their lives online, started their blog, and connected with people in their audience. I have really enjoyed the interview series he’s done so far, and based in large part on his efforts we’ve launched a new podcast called BlogcastFM.
Check BlogcastFM out and you’ll hear some great stories from people about their blogs, their businesses – and their whole lives. We’ve got some really exciting guests lined up, and for a taste you can get your free copy of Blogger Gems – and ebook I put together with Srinivas where we pulled a couple sentences out of each interview we’ve published so far, so you can get a taste of what it’s all about.
Don’t worry, I’m not going anywhere – I’ll still be writing here as often as ever.
One last thought, and I don’t have a good segway into this – but I think you’ll enjoy this film as much as I did. Seth Godin pointed it out to me.
When Life Hands You Lemons….
Yes, that’s right – Lemonade. If you haven’t seen this, you may want to bookmark this article to watch it later (or watch it now if you’ve got about 40 minutes to spare). It’s a short little film about some people who lost their jobs – and it may have been the best thing that ever happened to them. Many of us never get a chance to do what we truly desire – and the stories in Lemonade are inspirational.
What do you think? What are you passionate about? Share your thoughts with me in the comments, over email or over Twitter!
- Reclaim Your Dreams by Jonathan Mead
- You Can’t Start a Fire …
- I’ll Get Around To It Someday By Alex Fayle
- Motivation is Like Love – Coping When Your Passion Fades
- How To Get Motivated – 8 Tips to Break Your Motivational Funk
Favorites This Week:
- 6 Websites To Help You Get Out Of The House And Find Something To Do over at Stepcase Lifehack (by me!)
- Do You Dare Put Down The Mask? over at Chrisg.com
- Is Lifestyle Design Dead? over at Wage Slave Rebel
- Are You Creating What You Don’t Want? over at Advanced Life Skills
- Paid To Exist a program about living your passions by Jonathan Mead